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Tuesday, August 30, 2011
Being Who You Are: But, What if you're Dry?
I know some of the "driest" people. It's not their skin, or anything else physical. It's their expression. Their expressions/reactions are usually void of excitement, energy, & sometimes interest.
Example A: A very like-able co-worker announces that they are getting married. Everyone gathers in the office, practically jumping up & down with excitement...asking questions about the ring/special date/dress/arrangements/etc.; but the "dry person" says "Congratulations!", merely smiles & goes back to work.
Example B: The "dry person" is a friend/family. You invite them over your house for a get-together, & they sit in the corner of your couch, and generally appear aloof.
Example C: You are driving, and the "dry person" is in the passenger seat. A bad car accident happens just in front of you. You are (audibly) freaking out & the person in your passenger seat is silent.
It's not that they aren't happy for their co-worker, don't want to spend time with a friend/family, or aren't shocked about the accident. They just can't or don't convey this outwardly.
Some people are "natural conveyors" of their emotions; their energy, like a ray of light, can not easily be contained. For others, it takes work to show their true feelings; often times an "energy-draining" amount of work.
Two sides of the same coin; neither better or worth more than the other.
If you are dry, be dry.
Better to just be who you are, than to feign emotions that you don't naturally feel. Apparently, fake emotions can be detected; and you don't want to become known as that person with a fake...
Ever laugh at someone's joke, but their joke wasn't funny to you? Your laugh was more so for them; so they didn't feel bad for telling a not-so-good joke.
You're truly too kind.
It's okay not to laugh. If it's all for them, what's the point?
Who's life are you living?
If it's for other people, continue conjuring up these fake emotions. Hopefully, they will satisfy those around you. Hopefully, those around you appreciate how hard you are trying to please them.
If it's yours, be you; and if that means you naturally get a kick out of Laffy Taffy jokes, so be it.
Laugh until your eyes well with tears!
I am the danger!
It took awhile for me to get into this show, but not long at all for me to totally forget that Walt use to play Malcolm's dad LOL...two different characters...& some serious acting by Bryan Cranston.
...changing checkout lanes at the store. Someone in that sweet-looking shorter lane is guaranteed to pull out a checkbook...with coupons. Just stay where you are!
Friday, August 26, 2011
Top 3 Food-Peeves!
#2 warm/cold, &/or soggy French Fries
#1 stale/hard Bread
I like my hot food hot & my creamy treats frozen...all the way. LOL
What's your food peeve?
Thursday, August 25, 2011
Sunday, August 21, 2011
Resting IS "doing something", right?!
I'm horrible at R&R. Relaxing. Resting...I always feel like I should be doing something (productive), so most times I go & DO it. If I have nothing important or urgent to take care of, I go & find less important stuff to do.
It's rather irritating.
Not sure how this happened, but this past weekend:
• I sat down, turned on Netflix, selected Buffy The Vampire Slayer, & watched (fighting myself, hard, not to turn it off & wake up the computer to work, or go to the kitchen to start prepping dinner, or finish reading this book that I had to renew).
• I opened The Book & read.
• I managed to make it to bed before the next day came.
• I went out to breakfast with Husband, instead of cooking it.
• We watched New Jack City & sung (if you ever watched it, you know the tune LOL).
• We walked to the park & swung on swings...
& to our neighborhood ice cream stand...
where I got a strawberry shortcake with vanilla soft serve & devoured it; it was so delicious. I forgot how it's my favorite cake.
R&R; I think got a taste!
Ever feel like you need to be busy?
Thursday, August 18, 2011
Apple Pecan Salad with Raspberry Vinaigrette.
Wednesday, August 17, 2011
The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time
The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time, By Mark Haddon
Unique. Irritating. Sad. Interesting. Very irritating. Weird.
This book was all of the above.
I picked it up while perusing Borders, a few years ago. It was right off the back of reading two other National Bestsellers; both of which, I loved. I read the summary, wasn't attracted to the story, but figured I'd continue riding the Bestsellers book train. It hadn't steered me wrong yet.
Oh...and toss in there "sleek" (asking a lot, I know), because I want to blow out my hair for Fall.
I heard a lot of good things about Aveda.
Anyone try this brand? How are the Damage Remedy, and Brilliant lines? Do they smell good???
I want to try these:
Shampoo • Damage Remedy
Conditioner • Damage Remedy
Deep Conditioner • Damage Remedy Moisturizing Treatment Masque
Heat Protectors • Damage Remedy Daily Hair Repair &/or Brilliant Damage Control
Frizz Control • Brilliant Anti-Humectant Pomade
Styling Cream • Brilliant Universal Styling Creme
Monday, August 15, 2011
Cement, Stone & Cognac.
Friday, August 12, 2011
Banana Foster with Candied Pecans.
Banana foster! I have to thank my sis for introducing me to this one. When she made it at a family gathering, I inhaled my bowl & wanted another. My better judgement said not to be greedy. It was so good!
I didn't have any rum, so I looked for an alcohol-free recipe...a "Shirley Temple Banana Foster", if you will. This one did the trick, but I made several changes.
Share it, Do it; because. . .
Tell me what is up. . .
Wednesday, August 10, 2011
Finding that Something, that You Love to Do.
You can find it online, or if you are enrolled in a college or university; check with your career center.
• General occupational themes
• Basic interest scales
• Occupational scales
• Personal style scale
If you're interested in a summary of these categories, just leave a message below. The test may have changed over the years though.
Sunday, August 7, 2011
Don't lose your Donkey!
The Man, the Boy, and the Donkey
A Man and his son were once going with their Donkey to market.
As they were walking along by its side a countryman passed them
and said: "You fools, what is a Donkey for but to ride upon?"
So the Man put the Boy on the Donkey and they went on their
way. But soon they passed a group of men, one of whom said: "See
that lazy youngster, he lets his father walk while he rides."
So the Man ordered his Boy to get off, and got on himself.
But they hadn't gone far when they passed two women, one of whom
said to the other: "Shame on that lazy lout to let his poor little
son trudge along."
Well, the Man didn't know what to do, but at last he took his
Boy up before him on the Donkey. By this time they had come to
the town, and the passers-by began to jeer and point at them. The
Man stopped and asked what they were scoffing at. The men said:
"Aren't you ashamed of yourself for overloading that poor donkey
with you and your hulking son?"
The Man and Boy got off and tried to think what to do. They
thought and they thought, till at last they cut down a pole, tied
the donkey's feet to it, and raised the pole and the donkey to
their shoulders. They went along amid the laughter of all who met
them till they came to Market Bridge, when the Donkey, getting one
of his feet loose, kicked out and caused the Boy to drop his end
of the pole. In the struggle the Donkey fell over the bridge, and
his fore-feet being tied together, he drowned.
"That will teach you," said an old man who had followed them:
"Please all, and you will please none."
IF YOU TRY, YOU MIGHT AS WELL KISS YOUR A** GOODBYE!
Stuck in your past?
Saturday, August 6, 2011
Fresh Pasta Salad.
This time, I cut out the vinegar & made a simple lemon dressing. Perfect amount of tart!
Friday, August 5, 2011
Thanks so much for the sweet messages on the Mind Chatter & the Aug. Preview posts:)
They made me smile.
Stay-cation was great...we wandered & walked hand-in-hand a lot (far outside our community) & I enjoyed this the most. We also manage to go on the fireworks cruise.
Oh..., and I managed to wake up at 4:30 one morning to go fishing with Husband. You probably already know that I dread getting up early (& 4:30 is
Fishing, on the other hand, is this "exciting-frustrating-messy" thing. It's exciting when you catch; frustrating when the fishies steal your bait & your line gets caught on the rocky shoreline; messy when the worms are extra slimy/crawly. Trying to get hubby to get on a fishing boat, one day...
Do you fish?
Camera needed to be repaired about a week prior to our stay-cation; so, no photos.
I think it was meant to be...I felt more in the moment without it.