Mind Chatter: Open the Vents, it's Honest in Here. Errors, Blog Growth & Blog Comments.
best of blogs photobook
I was recently notified that my photo of banana cake would be included in the BlogHer "Best of Blogs 2011" photobook! How exciting!!! A copy of the book will be mailed to me. Can't wait to see it & share with you!
As much as I am a home-body, I've been aching to just GO somewhere & DO something before the summer is up. I'm even willing to brave this heat & humidity (and I really, REALLY dislike sweating under the sun), but I just gotta go.
So...husband and I are taking somewhat of a "staycation"; although, I prefer to call it "Several Days of Dates". We're going to the conservatory (never been), the zoo (it's been decades), mini-golfing (it's been awhile), and to see Cirque de Soleil (never been, have you?); hopefully we can also go on a fireworks cruise.
Trying some new restaurants along the way, is also on the menu (pun intended)!
I love spending time with The Mr.!
If I'm MIA next week; that's where I'll be...suffering the heat for love:)
What are your favorite places to go on a date?
If you're married, do you have to make an effort for date nights?
Date days seem easier to plan than date nights.
Husband & I are the "dinner & a movie" date night type.
We are not drinkers, smokers, or dancers for that matter. We also aren't big fans of crowds. This makes our night out options pretty simple, and somewhat limited where we live.
Dinner & a movie.
It's good, but it'd be nice to have at least one other option.
Any low-key, night out ideas?
Is there a such thing as nightlife beyond clubs & bars?
I hate making spelling errors. Whenever I see them, my mind auto corrects. When I see them in old posts of mine, I cringe. I was somewhat of a proofreader/editor for several years (though it wasn't in my job description). I no longer want to be a stickler for words. I want to be more free with my
Are you bothered when you read spelling/grammatical errors?
As a blogger, you naturally want people to visit, read, and comment on your blog. If they follow, it's even more exciting.
I am very pleased & grateful for the growth of MerelyMarie. I appreciate everyone who stops by. When I first started blogging, I wanted my page to be HUGE (I mean HUGE enough to earn full-time job income). I still do, but I want to go about growing the blog a certain way.
I know it takes time & tons of quality posts for a blog to grow, but MM has other issues that make blog growth somewhat difficult.
• I'm "niche-less"; by choice.
It's often suggested that if you want to be a big, successful blogger, you need to have a niche. One topic, that you can own; be somewhat of an "expert" on, so you can share what you know. Why? Because people are usually on the Internet, searching for information...that, or to be entertained.
When you blog about several different topics, it's difficult to get recognized as an authority on one. When you blog about your life, it's even harder; as it is a guarantee that no one is googling, "what's Marie favorite coffee blend".
It's like...So What, Who Cares!? *Joy Behar shrug* LOL
I had a niche with my old blog, but, I felt really compelled to share a little more of myself, along with all the things that I love.
Can a blog like that really make it HUGE?
• I decided awhile ago to no longer tell people to follow.
Maybe, I just need to either work on, or get past this & just promote.
Which brings me to my last point...
• I don't want to promote.
I love my blog, and I think it's awesome! Sometimes I want to shout it from the rooftops! Yes..picture me standing on top of a roof, screaming "Visit MerelyMarie....it's awesome & I love it!!!"
Yeah, real classy Marie.
Other times, I like & appreciate that MM is this somewhat private space for me to share with a small group of people. I'm not sure how I'd feel about my neighbors knowing about my blog.
Can you grow a blog without blatantly promoting it?
Not only do I want to be more free in writing blog posts, but in commenting on other's blog posts. I've been trying this out for a few months, and it feels quite nice.
Do you ever type out a comment, read it, then hit the backspace button all the way back to the beginning? Have you ever felt compelled to comment, but decided against it? Or, maybe you started to, but immediately closed out the window; because your mind said something like: "that will sound corny/lame", "that will sound corny/lame...& it'd forever be linked to MY profile", "124 comments...somebody probably said that already", or "that...doesn't...make ANY sense".
I'll try not to anymore.
I'm learning to feel good about whatever words I put out there, because they are mine.
I'm somewhat of a serious person, but I can be exceptionally silly & cheesy at times. I get called "gay" a lot by family, because I tend to romanticize things with a smile on my face.
Feel free to keep this in mind, when you read my comments & future posts:)
Bloggers value comments; authentic comments make us smile, but most times
...& now it's 1:44 in the A.M., and I'm blogging about blogging.
Is that the end of this endless Mind Chatter?!
I think so.